behavioural management consulant using NLp, TLT, Hypnosis & parallel identity therapy

For many of us our sexuality and out sexual ability is heavily linked with our identity, confidence, masculinity or femininity and many other sides to our personality make up.
When issues occur it can be hugely debilitating and also cause problems within our relationships and our self esteem in general causing stress, anxiety, depression, fear of failure and especially in men, complete reluctance to even attempt intercourse in case things go wrong.

The situations and encounters we have during our lifetimes define our sexual ability and also past relationships can shape how we view ourselves which can sometimes be negative and cause a complete loss of confidence, body image issues and a host of other complex and deep structures that need time to be unravelled and dealt with.

If you are in a relationship and difficulties occur you are not only dealing with your own issues but the catalyst of issues it can bring within the relationship and the self doubt caused in your partner so there is a doubled effect.

As well as dysfunction in men and women I also deal with other related problems like sexual addiction, porn addiction and also fetish addiction which I have written extensively on and these are areas that have been heavily shunned by society and so many problems related to sex have become taboo and rarely discussed due to societies inability to accept each persons preferences and the constant striving to be seen as "normal" and "accepted".

Each person I see is completely unique and so the therapy work carried out is completely tailored to them, looking for the root cause of the problem and then using a variety of therapeutic techniques to then change the behaviour. Some issues require management rather than "therapy" and there is always a practical and pragmatic approach giving you steps that you can implement yourself as well as the therapy work we do.

A common question is "how many sessions will it take to cure me?". Well, this I cannot tell you, for some they do it in one session, for others it takes a little longer and I tend to put emphasis on the fact that you have to want to change and also are willing to follow post appointment actioning which is a way of embedding new behaviour after the session. I dont "cure" anyone, I provide therapy and ultimately it is down to the client to accept change, implement the steps and create the change.

I also do work with couples helping them to overcome an issue or reinvent thier sex lives and guide them through change whilst regaining confidence in the relationship and themselves which can be hugely exciting as you watch the relationship change and grow.

Your session is treated with complete confidentiality and absolutely no judgement and for many of the issues I can also offer a video link or telephone session as well as one to one office appointments. For many of our international clients, a time has to be agreed for the video or phone sessions due to time differences being taken into account.

Please see and click on some of the sexual issue I deal with below.