You would not believe how many men suffer from this at some point in their lives and later in life, due to physiological changes, it can happen more frequently from the age of 50 onwards. Of course, there are a number of medical conditions and medication which can cause erection problems, so see your GP first and if all that is clear, then it’s time to look at other methods of treatment like erection dysfunction therapy which takes a different approach.
However, for some clients it can be a matter of pressure. The problem for men is that they are expected to “perform” and if they don’t, then they tend to feel as though they are not man enough and even though many might take that lightly, for the sufferer, it is a very disturbing problem which can eat away at confidence in their overall abilities and masculinity. This is mostly due to social conditioning and peer pressure along with the fact that very few men openly admit that they have this problem or seek erection dysfunction therapy.
Of course, then their partners assume that they are not exciting them and blame themselves which then makes it even worse and the whole situation starts to become a very large overwhelming issue.
If you happen to have this problem, you could pretty safely bet that one of your peer group will have had the problem as well at some point so, I can tell you, you are not alone.
Erection Dysfunction Therapy – What Causes the Problem?
So – what is it that causes the problem? It can be a number of things but frequently it’s a case of confidence and/or pressure. It can also be due to one experience where it happened and you are so worried that it will happen again you create a cycle, where you get nervous and of course, it happens again. It then builds up from there into a repetitive problem.
It can also be a case of lack of self confidence in your ability or performance. Worries that you may be “judged” by your partner or your performance, if you happen to not be as experienced as your partner or if they had a previous partner who, in your eyes, was a major sexual predator and you worry you can’t live up to that.
What is different with our approach to Erection Dysfunction Therapy?
There are many ways to treat this problem. Mainly, we work on the sufferer’s self esteem and self perception, and once these are improved, they become more relaxed and able to sustain an erection quite happily without worry. If it is a repetitive cycle problem then we find the sequence of events that started it and then stop the cycle. Hypnosis and NLP techniques can make a huge difference to these issues and I do see a number of men with problems like this who feel they have no one else they can seek help from.
This is a drug free, non pressured therapy and not only do you improve your sexual confidence but also your confidence in many areas of your life so you get more than just that specific treatment.
Please be aware that I am Trainer and Master Prac in Neuro linguistics, hypnotherapy and TLT and these should be considered as complimentary therapies. Advice should always be sought from a health professional first and foremost to identify any physiological issues and then contact a specifically trained and qualified sexual dysfunction therapist. The therapy I offer is complimentary to this or if you prefer to go down this avenue.
If you would like a confidential discussion then please call me on 0161 212 1115 or 07956 895 171 or email me.
You can also go to our page on loss of sex drive which has additional information.