behavioural management consulant using NLp, TLT, Hypnosis & parallel identity therapy

relaxation and sexual pain

Now then, this is occasionally a tricky issue. The reason being that clients have been told that the pain they are having is due to physchological rather than physiological problems and then after extensive work and further medical consultations finally found it was a physical problem after all.

If you are completely satisfied that the problem of pain during sex is psychological then yes I can assist. Frequently due to tension and therefore muscular tension, this can make sex an uncomfortable experience and result in avoidance and cause further relationship issues.

As well as having a background as a sports therapist and dealing with the physical I accompany this with psychological work to help relax you, particularly during foreplay so that you begin to focus on the "feel" and excitement and therefore allow the signals from the brain to the body to let you relax and then relieve the intra muscular tension and less or no pain.

The problem with the pain issue is that the man has to regain confidence again in the fact he is not going to hurt you or cause you discomfort and this can also be a consideration for the male partner as well as for you so was also discuss steps you can take to help that situation as well.

This is a complex problem which can greatly affect both parties confidence so care is taken to provide practical and fun steps to allow you to fully relax and have great sex without the fear of pain or anxiety.